1. Un homme sensible, lui
Confucius was mourning Zilu’s death at the courtyard of the house. A person arrived to show respect to the dead. Confucius greeted him. After the mourning (ceremonial wailing) was finished, Confucius asked what happened. The person answered, “They pickled his body.” Having heard this, Confucius ordered the servant to throw away pickles. (Liji, Tan Gong I, 7)
孔子哭子路於中庭。有人吊者，而夫子拜之。既哭，進使者而問故。使者曰：「醢(해)之矣。」 遂命覆醢 (禮記, 檀弓上 7)
Yan Yuan died. The Master said, ‘O! Heaven is forsaking me! Heaven is forsaking me!’ (Lunyu, 11.9)
顏淵死。子曰：「噫！天喪予！天喪予！」 (Lunyu 11.9)
Yan Yuan died. The Master wailed in great grief. The attendants said, ‘Sir, you grieve greatly.’ ‘Do I?’ said the Master. ‘If his loss does not cause grief, what will?’ (Lunyu 11.10)
顏淵死，子哭之慟。從者曰：「子慟矣。」 曰：「有慟乎？非夫人之為慟而誰為！」 (Lunyu 11.10)
[...] After circling around, the birds came down and gathered together. The Master said, “Nice pheasants! Right time! Right time!” Zilu served him the bird. Three times he sniffed the dish, then he rose.
色斯舉矣，翔而後集。曰：「山梁雌雉，時哉！時哉！」子路共之，三嗅而作。(Lunyu 10.18)
[In preparing ceremonial offerings] The dishes are not fully cooked, the elaborately piled meat is not to be tasted. They are to be sniffed three times and not eaten. (Xun Zi, Li Lun 11)
利爵之不醮(=盡)也，成事之俎不嘗也，三臭之不食也，一也。(荀子, 禮論 11)
Then one day accompanied by some worthy sons of his father’s ministers, friends full of varied converse, — with a desire to see the glades of the forest and longing for peace, he went out with the king’s permission. Having mounted his good horse Kaṁthaka, decked with bells and bridle-bit of new gold, with beautiful golden harness and the chowrie waving, he went forth like the moon mounted on a comet. Lured by love of the wood and longing for the beauties of the ground, he went to a spot near at hand on the forest-outskirts; and there he saw a piece of land being ploughed, with the path of the plough broken like waves on the water. Having beheld the ground in this condition, with its young grass scattered and torn by the plough, and covered with the eggs and young of little insects which were killed, he was filled with deep sorrow as for the slaughter of his own kindred. And beholding the men as they were ploughing, their complexions spoiled by the dust, the sun’s rays, and the wind, and their cattle bewildered with the burden of drawing, the most noble one felt extreme compassion. Having alighted from the back of his horse, he went over the ground slowly, overcome with sorrow, — pondering the birth and destruction of the world, he, grieved, exclaimed, ‘this is indeed pitiable.’ (Ashvaghosha, Buddhacarita, 5.2 - 5.7)
Zi Gong wanted to discontinue the killing of a lamb for the monthly sacrifice. The Master said, "Si, you cherish the lamb. I cherish the Li." 子貢欲去告朔之餼羊。子曰：賜也 爾愛其羊 我愛其禮 (八佾, 3.17)
2. Under-privileged, progressive
Confucius lost his father when he was young. Confucius did not know where his father’s grave is located. [When Confucius’s mother died] he placed (his mother's) coffin in the street of Wu-fu. Those who saw it all thought that it was to be interred there. It was prepared very carefully but it was (only) a coffin. By inquiring of the mother of Man-fu of Chu, Confucius managed to bury his mother in the same grave (with his father) at Fang. (Liji, Tan Gong I, 10)
孔子少孤，不知其墓。殯於五父之衢。人之見之者，皆以為葬也。其慎也，蓋殯也。問於郰曼父之母，然後得合葬於防。(禮記, 檀弓上 10) (郰人之子=Confucius)
A high ranking official asked Zi Gong, ‘Is it true that your teacher is a Saint? How come he is good at so many things?’ Zi Gong said, ‘The Heaven originally ordained him as a Great Saint. He has many talents as well.’ The Master heard this and said, ‘The high ranking official surely knows me. When I was young, I was lowly. That’s why I am good at many mundane jobs. Is a noble man good at many things? No, he is not.’ (Lunyu, 9.6)
大宰問於子貢曰：「夫子聖者與？何其多能也？」子貢曰：「固天縱之將聖，又多能也。」子聞之，曰：「大宰知我乎！吾少也賤，故多能鄙事。君子多乎哉？不多也。」 (子罕 9.6)
The Master said, ‘Those who are progressive in matters of Li and Music come from the countryside. The less progressive ones in matters of Li and Music are from the nobility. If I am in a position to hire people, I shall choose the progressive ones.’ (Lunyu, 11.1)
子曰：「先進於禮樂，野人也；後進於禮樂，君子也。如用之，則吾從先進。」 (先進 11.1)
The Master wanted to live among the nine barbarian tribes. Someone said, ‘Squalid out there, wouldn’t it?’ The Master said, ‘Where a noble man dwells, how can there be anything squalid?’ (Lunyu, 9.14)
子欲居九夷。或曰：「陋，如之何！」子曰：「君子居之，何陋之有？」 (子罕 9.14)
3. 'Wide' circle of friends
A friend of Confucius died. But the deceased had no one who would give a funeral. Confucius said, ‘We will have the coffin in my house.’ (Lunyu, 10.15)
朋友死，無所歸。曰：「於我殯。」 (논어, 향당 10.15)
4. Fine taste
Over a dark costume, he would wear a black lamb skin coat; over a white costume, he would wear a deer skin coat; over a brown costume, he would wear a fox skin coat. (Lunyu, 10.6)
緇(치=black)衣羔裘(고구=흑염소털옷)，素衣麑裘(흰사슴털옷)，黃衣狐裘(여우털옷) (鄉黨 10.6)
He didn't hate finely milled rice and thinly sliced meat. ... When the color was bad, he would not eat. When the smell was bad, he would not eat. When the dish is over-cooked, he would not eat. When it is not the right time, he would not eat. When it was not neatly cut, he would not eat. When it was not properly seasoned, he would not eat. (Lunyu, 10.8)
食不厭精，膾不厭細 … 色惡，不食。臭惡，不食。失飪(=over-cooked)，不食。不時，不食。割不正，不食。不得其醬，不食 (鄉黨 10.8)
If the seating is not properly arranged, he would not sit. (Lunyu 10.9)
席不正，不坐。(鄉黨 10.9)
Even when there is plenty of meat, he would not let his appetite win over him. But he drank like a whale. He would not, however, go out of control.
肉雖多，不使勝食氣。惟酒無量，不及亂。(鄉黨 10.8)
Except for funerals, he would always wear jewellery. 去喪，無所不佩 (鄉黨 10.6)
Yan Yuan died. Yan Lu inquired whether the Master could sell his carriage to pay for the outer coffin. The Master said, ‘Whether talented or not, I will have to talk about my son. When Li died, he was buried in a coffin without an outer coffin. I did not go on foot in order to have the outer coffin. As I am in the train of dignataries, I could not go on foot.’ (Lunyu, 11.8)
顏淵死，顏路請子之車以為之椁。子曰：「才不才，亦各言其子也。鯉也死，有棺而無椁。吾不徒行以為之椁。以吾從大夫之後，不可徒行也。」 (先進 11.8)
5. Awkward meetings
The Master had an audience with Nan Zi (南子). Zi Lu was not pleased. Conficius solemnly swore and said, "If I did something inappropriate, Heaven will loathe it. Heaven will loathe it!'
子見南子，子路不說。夫子矢之曰：「予所否者，天厭之！天厭之！」 (雍也, 6.28)
6. Knows what really matters
The stable was burnt down. He came home from the court. He said, ‘Was anybody hurt?’ He did not ask about the horse. (Lunyu, 10.12)
廄(구)焚。子退朝，曰：「傷人乎？」 不問馬。(鄉黨 10.12)
Compare it with 11.8
7. Reformist
The Master said, ‘Sayings of the proper law – can you ignore them? Reforming them, however, is more precious. Sayings offered by way of a praise – can you not feel happy? Sift through them, however, is more precious. To be happy without sifting through the praise, to conform without reforming – I don’t know how one can do that.’ (Lunyu, 9.24)
子曰：「法語之言，能無從乎？改之為貴。巽與之言，能無說乎？繹之為貴。說而不繹，從而不改，吾末如之何也已矣。」 (子罕 9.24)
Also see 11.1
8. Icon of rebellion
The Master spoke of Gong Ye Chang (公冶長): "He is marriageable. Although he was imprisoned, it was not his fault." The Master gave his daughter to him in marriage.
子謂公冶長，「可妻也。雖在縲絏之中，非其罪也」。以其子妻之。(公冶長 5.1)
Kong Qiu plans thoroughly to conspire and to support rebels. He works diligently and has a great deal of knowledge. But he use it to carry out evil deeds and to incite the subordinates to topple the superiors. He instigates the ministers to assassinate their ruler. This is not a wise man's conduct. When he visits a dukedom, he sides with the rebels. This is not an upright man's conduct. When he senses that people no longer have loyalty to the ruler, he encourages a rebellion. This is neither good nor right. Even after he flees, he still plans, schemes and spread bad words behind the back of a ruler. He may think that he is doing the right thing. But in the eyes of the people, what he does is confusing. Rulers and ministers may not adopt what he plans and prepares to carry out. (Mozi 墨子, 非儒下, 8)
Similar accounts are found at 史記, 孔子世家 10 and 晏子春秋, 外篇下.
Now that Your Highness has unified the whole world, you have the exclusive authority to determine right and wrong. There are still groups of people who purport to learn and criticise the law and the orders of the government. They purport to interpret the commandment according to their own learning (學). At home, they are full of discontent about the government. Outside, they are busying themselves here and there discussing their strategies. They obtain fame by showing off to a ruler. They embellish their status with sophistry. If this is not banned, Your Highness' authority will be weakened and factions will emerge. They should be banned.
Let the Records Officer burn all records other than the official records of Qin. Collected Poems, Documents and various other texts except the texts in the possession of Propaganda Officers must all be burned. Afterwards, those who gather together to discuss the Poems and the Documents should be executed in the marketplace. Those who criticise the current affairs referring to old histories (以古非今者) should be killed together with their family members. Those who do not burn such books within 30 days should be tattooed and sent to the frontiers to forced labour. The books which are exempt from destruction are those on medicine, pharmacy, divination, seeds and trees. Those wishing to learn the law should learn it from officials. 史記, 秦始皇本紀, 38 (213 BCE) 진시황34년(기원전213): 이사(李斯)
9. Supreme being
The Master was freed from the following four: prejudice, imperative, inflexibility and self-importance. (Lunyu, 9.4)
子絕四：毋意，毋必，毋固，毋我。(子罕 9.4)
What we conjecture in our mind, we call it 意. What remains of the 意, we call it 志 (黃帝內經, 靈樞經, 本神, 2 心有所憶謂之意；意之所存謂之志).
Also see 15.22 (君子不以言舉人，不以人廢言)
- A noble man does not promote a person simply because of his words. Nor does he dismiss words simply because of the person.
and 15.27 (眾惡之，必察焉；眾好之，必察焉)
- If a person is hated by many, you should keep a close watch on him. If a person is liked by many, you should keep a close watch on him.
